If there lived a woman who could turn heads like no other, her name was Marilyn Monroe. Perhaps it was her patent charm, or her blatant sexuality impeccably blended with girly innocence that made her the legend she is; or maybe it was the controversies – the nude photographs, the three marriages, and the alleged affair with one of the most famous Presidents of the United States. But the secret (as Dan Brown puts it) lies in how to die. Marilyn Monroe’s death is shrouded in mystery, and surrounded by numerous conspiracy theories, thereby conferring a permanent place for her in the minds of the masses. Whatever be the reason, Marilyn Monroe was tailor-made for fame, in life, and in death.
On June 1, 1926, Marilyn Monroe, then Norma Jeane Mortenson (baptized as Norma Jeane Baker) was born in Los Angeles, California. The identity of her father remains unknown, and her mother, Gladys Baker, was committed to a mental institution due to psychological problems some years after Norma’s birth. Norma Jeane, after spending most of her childhood in foster homes, married her 21 year old neighbour Jimmy Dougherty on June 19, 1942, when she was only 16. Jimmy left for the Merchant Marines in 1944. It was when Jimmy was gone, that she caught the attention of David Conover, a photographer who introduced her to the modeling business.
Here was an orphaned girl of astounding beauty, who by a chance of fate met a photographer, and two years down, she was an established model, and 7 years later she became a star. She was born twice (once as Norma Jeane, and then as Marilyn Mornroe) and married thrice (Jimmy Dougherty, Joe DiMaggio, and Arthur). The unquestionable sex appeal, the controversies and the men in her life gave her a permanent spot in the lime light. She was well versed with the art of catching people’s attention. Once, when she was asked about what she wears to bed, she replied, “What do I wear in bed? Why, Chanel No. 5, of course.” In between the movies, mania and marriages, she dated many men, the most controversial of her affairs being the alleged affairs with President John F Kennedy and his brother Robert Kennedy. Marilyn sang her (in)famous “Happy Birthday Mr President” for J F Kennedy at the President’s 45th birthday celebration on May 19, 1962, to which almost 15000 people were invited. The song, reputed for the sultry tone in which it was sung, confirmed the existence of the affair for many. But this would turn out to be one of her last major public appearances. On August 5, 1962, Marilyn Monroe was discovered dead in her bed, phone clutched in her hand, and overdosed on barbiturates.
The death of Monroe, in 1962 became and remains to this day, one of the most sizzling controversies ever. The official reports say her death was an accident. But many felt that the evidence in the case said quite the contrary.
There are various schools of thought when it comes to the question of what could have happened to Monroe. Some say she committed suicide due to severe mental anguish, which she had been feeling for quite sometime, the reason why she saw her psychiatrist everyday. Others say that the Kennedys would have wanted her out of the picture because their affairs with her would cause ill repute to them. Still others say that the Mafia took keen interest in Monroe because of her ties with the Advocate General at the time – Robert Kennedy. The irony of human life is that no matter how much one may educate oneself, the best secrets will never be discovered. The same goes for Monroe. We will never know how she really died.
It would be wrong though, to presume that Marilyn was merely a pretty face who led an insubstantial life. On the contrary, her life was exemplary of the ability to choose one’s own destiny and to be defined as what one wants to be defined as. She was not afraid of speaking her heart. But the secret is always how to die. Maybe, she wanted eternal fame, and that’s why she committed suicide. Or maybe someone, not realising, shot her into eternal fame by murdering her. Marilyn Monroe like Julius Caesar, shall always be remembered more due to her death than her life.








02.22.10
Dear Sirtaj
Your article was both interesting and informative. It was quite a revelation to know about Marilyn’s personal life which blended into her public life thanks to the media’s constant gaze. But as you rightly pointed out, the best guarded secrets cant be revealed no matter how hard we try to excavate them. Her death was indeed a mystery. And so it has been for many Indian celebrities too. But the mass hysteria which Monroe created, is worth noticing and respecting.
This observation also leads me to believe that one need not particularly be a saint to be famous. According to me, fame lies not only in the good deeds you did, but also in the number of eyebrows you raised. Marilyn, though a controversial and perhaps ill-famous celebrity, aroused the curiosity of people by and large. Her fame and popularity is still unparalleled. Who would then care about her illicit affairs or the immoral habits of her life?
We all have our different ways of approaching success, hers was the Marilyn way; and she damn well succeeded in it!
02.22.10
Thank you for taking out the time to leave a comment. You are absolutely right when you say that one need not be a saint to be famous, the point being substantiated by Marc Antony’s words, “The evil that men do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones.” No doubt Marilyn had a distinct social identity which was what made her THE Marilyn Monroe. Her controversial statements and her affairs were very much a part of that identity, which is why one cannot ignore them even if one wishes. She was bold and daring and that is what made her unique.
02.24.10
hey this is a relli relli nyc, interesting article ya!!!! kudos
02.24.10
thank you so much!
03.10.10
I didn’t understand the concluding part of your article, could you please explain it more?
03.12.10
We always judge the fame that a person has achieved in the context of what they did during their lifetime. I have simply tried to look at it from another point of view and it seems to me that a scandalous death promises eternal glory; and probably marilyn monroe is remembered as she is today because of the manner in which she died.
03.13.10
You have really great taste on catch article titles, even when you are not interested in this topic you push to read it
03.13.10
Thank you…
04.12.10
Very Very well written…!! i love it!!